DUKASAMMY INSPIRE

  Many people grow up believing that meeting a partner in church is the safest path to marriage. The assumption is simple: if someone worships in church, prays, and speaks in tongues, then they must be a good person. Unfortunately, real life has shown us that it is not always that simple. The church is a sacred place, yes—but it is also a gathering of imperfect humans. Faith is important, but faith alone does not automatically translate into good character, emotional maturity, or readiness for marriage. The Church Is a Place of Healing, Not a Certificate of Wholeness The church is much like a hospital. People come in broken, wounded, confused, angry, and still learning. Some are healing. Some are pretending to be healed. Others are unaware they need help at all. Being present in church does not mean a person has dealt with their trauma, learned self-control, or developed emotional responsibility. A person can pray loudly on Sunday and still struggle with anger, dishonesty, manipula...

The Anambra State Commissioner for Education has been elevated to the rank of Assistant Commissioner of Police (ACP) as a Supernumerary (SPY) officer, marking a remarkable milestone in public service.   The elevation reflects years of dedication and commitment to national development, both in the education sector and in support of internal security. Serving simultaneously as a state Commissioner for Education and now as an Assistant Commissioner of Police, the appointment highlights a rare blend of academic leadership and disciplined service.   This recognition underscores the trust reposed in the Commissioner’s capacity to contribute meaningfully to nation-building across multiple spheres. It also stands as an encouragement to professionals who continue to offer their expertise beyond a single field of service.   The development has attracted congratulatory messages from colleagues, associates, and well-wishers, who describe the elevation as well-deserved and timely. ...

Inferiority complex is that quiet voice inside a person that constantly whispers, “You are not good enough.” It is the feeling of seeing yourself as less valuable, less capable, or less deserving than others — even when there is no real evidence to support it. Many people walk around smiling, laughing, and appearing confident on the outside, yet deep within them is a heavy sense of inadequacy. They feel smaller in rooms, unworthy of opportunities, and afraid to express themselves fully. What Is Inferiority Complex? Inferiority complex is a psychological condition where a person persistently feels inferior to others. It affects how one thinks, behaves, and relates with people. It is not humility. Humility is healthy; inferiority complex is destructive. A person suffering from inferiority complex constantly compares themselves with others and almost always concludes that they fall short. How Inferiority Complex Develops Inferiority complex does not just appear overnight. It often gro...

  Training a girl child is not an easy task. It requires time, patience, energy, and intentional attention. There are many values we must consciously teach our daughters if we truly desire a better future for them and for society. Some of these include: 1. Our daughters should understand that money has no gender. A woman can earn, create wealth, and succeed without depending solely on a man. 2. They should be taught to use their brains, skills, and talents to make money—not their bodies. 3. Marrying a rich man may be good, but it should never be the main criterion when choosing a life partner. Instead, our daughters should pray, work hard, and strive to become successful themselves—even becoming leaders. A female governor is not a bad idea at all. 4. She should be trained to become a successful, responsible, and respectful lady. Regardless of her achievements, respect in relationships remains important. 5. Our daughters should understand that time waits for no one and should not be...

  As Christmas approaches, it’s easy to focus on what we don’t have. The clothes we couldn’t buy, the plans that didn’t work out, the year that didn’t turn out the way we hoped. Everywhere we look, there are reminders of expectations—celebrations, gifts, and pictures of happiness that can quietly make us feel like we’re falling behind. But Christmas also offers us something powerful, if we’re willing to slow down enough to notice it: gratitude. Gratitude doesn’t mean pretending everything is perfect. It doesn’t mean ignoring pain, struggle, or disappointment. It simply means acknowledging what is still standing, even when many things feel broken. Sometimes, gratitude begins with the smallest things—life, health, family, or even the strength to keep going despite everything. For many people, especially in Nigeria, this year has not been easy. Rising costs, uncertainty, and personal challenges have weighed heavily on everyday life. In moments like this, gratitude becomes less about a...

In  a world where copying others often feels safer than being yourself, staying true to your "steeze" takes real courage. Everywhere you turn, there’s pressure to look like this person, talk like that person, or live life according to what’s trending. Over time, it becomes easy to forget who you really are and start moving with the crowd just to feel accepted. But your "steeze"—your personal style, mindset, and way of seeing things—can’t be borrowed. It’s not something you pick up overnight or fake successfully. It’s built from your experiences, your struggles, your failures, and the lessons you’ve learned along the way. Every small decision where you choose what feels right over what feels popular adds another layer to it. Being authentic doesn’t mean trying to be different for attention. It simply means being honest with yourself. It means knowing what aligns with you and having the confidence to stand by it, even when others don’t get it. Many people lose themsel...