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We Are Not Lazy—The System Is Broken

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  There is a quiet insult that follows many young people today. It shows up in conversations, in social media comments, in the dismissive tone of older generations: “This generation is lazy.” It sounds simple, almost harmless—but for millions of hardworking individuals struggling to find their footing, it is both unfair and deeply misleading. Because the truth is this: many young people are not lazy. They are tired. They are frustrated. They are navigating systems that make even the simplest progress feel like an uphill battle. To label them as lazy is to ignore the realities they face every single day. At first glance, the idea of laziness seems convenient. It offers an easy explanation for unemployment, slow progress, and unmet potential. If people are not succeeding, then perhaps they are simply not trying hard enough. But this explanation collapses under even the slightest scrutiny. Look closer at the average young adult. You will find someone who wakes up early, not because li...
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WHAT SHOULD PARENTS TEACH THEIR CHILDREN - NWOKOLO, LOIS

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    Love   Parents should teach children about love by modeling it, explaining its qualities (patience, kindness, empathy), fostering unconditional acceptance, teaching healthy expression through actions and words, and demonstrating respect and forgiveness, creating a foundation for secure, loving relationships. It's about showing them they are valued and building a safe space for them to learn to love themselves and others genuinely. Parent should teach the children how to love. Teach them that real love is unconditional Love.Teach them that love entails considering others' feelings and needs, and being kind and helpful, treating others with dignity and honoring boundaries.Love involves giving and contributing to others, not just getting something back.love is patience and Forgiveness  Teach them what love does not entails like hatred, love does not boast,love is not selfish.   By consistently showing and discussing love at home, children learn that love is a v...
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CHURCH IS NOT PROOF OF CHARACTER: WHY FAITH ALONE IS NOT ENOUGH FOR MARRIAGE.

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  Many people grow up believing that meeting a partner in church is the safest path to marriage. The assumption is simple: if someone worships in church, prays, and speaks in tongues, then they must be a good person. Unfortunately, real life has shown us that it is not always that simple. The church is a sacred place, yes—but it is also a gathering of imperfect humans. Faith is important, but faith alone does not automatically translate into good character, emotional maturity, or readiness for marriage. The Church Is a Place of Healing, Not a Certificate of Wholeness The church is much like a hospital. People come in broken, wounded, confused, angry, and still learning. Some are healing. Some are pretending to be healed. Others are unaware they need help at all. Being present in church does not mean a person has dealt with their trauma, learned self-control, or developed emotional responsibility. A person can pray loudly on Sunday and still struggle with anger, dishonesty, manipula...
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Anambra Commissioner for Education Elevated to Assistant Commissioner of Police (SPY)

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The Anambra State Commissioner for Education has been elevated to the rank of Assistant Commissioner of Police (ACP) as a Supernumerary (SPY) officer, marking a remarkable milestone in public service.   The elevation reflects years of dedication and commitment to national development, both in the education sector and in support of internal security. Serving simultaneously as a state Commissioner for Education and now as an Assistant Commissioner of Police, the appointment highlights a rare blend of academic leadership and disciplined service.   This recognition underscores the trust reposed in the Commissioner’s capacity to contribute meaningfully to nation-building across multiple spheres. It also stands as an encouragement to professionals who continue to offer their expertise beyond a single field of service.   The development has attracted congratulatory messages from colleagues, associates, and well-wishers, who describe the elevation as well-deserved and timely. ...
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INFERIORITY COMPLEX: WHEN YOU FEEL LESS THAN WHO YOU TRULY ARE

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Inferiority complex is that quiet voice inside a person that constantly whispers, “You are not good enough.” It is the feeling of seeing yourself as less valuable, less capable, or less deserving than others — even when there is no real evidence to support it. Many people walk around smiling, laughing, and appearing confident on the outside, yet deep within them is a heavy sense of inadequacy. They feel smaller in rooms, unworthy of opportunities, and afraid to express themselves fully. What Is Inferiority Complex? Inferiority complex is a psychological condition where a person persistently feels inferior to others. It affects how one thinks, behaves, and relates with people. It is not humility. Humility is healthy; inferiority complex is destructive. A person suffering from inferiority complex constantly compares themselves with others and almost always concludes that they fall short. How Inferiority Complex Develops Inferiority complex does not just appear overnight. It often gro...
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OUR DAUGHTERS; OUR PRIDE

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  Training a girl child is not an easy task. It requires time, patience, energy, and intentional attention. There are many values we must consciously teach our daughters if we truly desire a better future for them and for society. Some of these include: 1. Our daughters should understand that money has no gender. A woman can earn, create wealth, and succeed without depending solely on a man. 2. They should be taught to use their brains, skills, and talents to make money—not their bodies. 3. Marrying a rich man may be good, but it should never be the main criterion when choosing a life partner. Instead, our daughters should pray, work hard, and strive to become successful themselves—even becoming leaders. A female governor is not a bad idea at all. 4. She should be trained to become a successful, responsible, and respectful lady. Regardless of her achievements, respect in relationships remains important. 5. Our daughters should understand that time waits for no one and should not be...
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The Power of Gratitude During the Christmas Season

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  As Christmas approaches, it’s easy to focus on what we don’t have. The clothes we couldn’t buy, the plans that didn’t work out, the year that didn’t turn out the way we hoped. Everywhere we look, there are reminders of expectations—celebrations, gifts, and pictures of happiness that can quietly make us feel like we’re falling behind. But Christmas also offers us something powerful, if we’re willing to slow down enough to notice it: gratitude. Gratitude doesn’t mean pretending everything is perfect. It doesn’t mean ignoring pain, struggle, or disappointment. It simply means acknowledging what is still standing, even when many things feel broken. Sometimes, gratitude begins with the smallest things—life, health, family, or even the strength to keep going despite everything. For many people, especially in Nigeria, this year has not been easy. Rising costs, uncertainty, and personal challenges have weighed heavily on everyday life. In moments like this, gratitude becomes less about a...
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