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WHAT SHOULD PARENTS TEACH THEIR CHILDREN - NWOKOLO, LOIS

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    Love   Parents should teach children about love by modeling it, explaining its qualities (patience, kindness, empathy), fostering unconditional acceptance, teaching healthy expression through actions and words, and demonstrating respect and forgiveness, creating a foundation for secure, loving relationships. It's about showing them they are valued and building a safe space for them to learn to love themselves and others genuinely. Parent should teach the children how to love. Teach them that real love is unconditional Love.Teach them that love entails considering others' feelings and needs, and being kind and helpful, treating others with dignity and honoring boundaries.Love involves giving and contributing to others, not just getting something back.love is patience and Forgiveness  Teach them what love does not entails like hatred, love does not boast,love is not selfish.   By consistently showing and discussing love at home, children learn that love is a v...

CHURCH IS NOT PROOF OF CHARACTER: WHY FAITH ALONE IS NOT ENOUGH FOR MARRIAGE.

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  Many people grow up believing that meeting a partner in church is the safest path to marriage. The assumption is simple: if someone worships in church, prays, and speaks in tongues, then they must be a good person. Unfortunately, real life has shown us that it is not always that simple. The church is a sacred place, yes—but it is also a gathering of imperfect humans. Faith is important, but faith alone does not automatically translate into good character, emotional maturity, or readiness for marriage. The Church Is a Place of Healing, Not a Certificate of Wholeness The church is much like a hospital. People come in broken, wounded, confused, angry, and still learning. Some are healing. Some are pretending to be healed. Others are unaware they need help at all. Being present in church does not mean a person has dealt with their trauma, learned self-control, or developed emotional responsibility. A person can pray loudly on Sunday and still struggle with anger, dishonesty, manipula...